17 Dining Mistakes You’re Making That You Never Knew About
Going out to dinner isn’t just about the food or the company. You might think it’s all about sitting at the table, eating delicious food, and that’s it, but that’s only just the beginning. Eating out at a restaurant is an experience that involves manners, social graces, and really, what it all boils down to: respect. In fact, you could be acting totally rude at the dinner table without even knowing it.
Right now, you’re probably asking what it is you’re doing wrong. Well, here’s exactly how to fix the 17 dining mistakes you’re making that you never knew about!
1. Wait until everyone is seated and served before you start eating
2. Use your utensils from the outside in
3. Don’t place items on the table that are unrelated to the meal
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Keep your phone, keys, and whatever else off the table.
4. Don’t use salt and pepper before you taste your meal
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Doing this is an insult to the chef.
5. Rubbing your chopsticks is considered rude
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It’s a sign that you think the establishment is low quality or that their utensils are cheap.
6. The way you position your utensils sends specific signals to the waitstaff
7. Resting your chopsticks across your bowl is considered a breach of etiquette
8. How to properly eat soup
9. Letting your chopsticks stand in your rice bowl is considered an offering to the dead
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It’s an absolute no-no.
10. There is a proper way to hold and place your utensils down
You shouldn’t hold your knife like a dagger or place the cutlery back on the table once you’ve picked them up.
11. The salt and pepper should always be passed together
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12. How to eat lobster properly
Your best bet is probably to not eat lobster in public.
13. Don’t talk with your mouth full
This should go without saying, but sadly, it needs to be said.
14. Never pass food from chopstick to chopstick
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It is too close to symbolically passing someone’s bones at a Japanese funeral. Use a plate instead.
15. This is considered an informal dining setting
16. And this is what a formal dining setup looks like
17. Always remember to tip
They say the standard now is 20%. If your meal was bad, don’t take it out on the server’s tips. Always bring up problems when they happen so the server can rectify the situation.